Strong Faith in Christ: Standing Firm Without Wobbling in our faith regardless of Circumstances
Purpose
This discussion is designed to help women grow strong, steady faith in Jesus Christ—the kind of faith that stands in pressure, stands in loss, stands in confusion, and stands in victory—without sliding backwards, doubting God’s character, or quitting when life gets hard.
1) What Strong Faith Really Is (And What It Isn’t)
Strong faith is not a personality trait. It’s not pretending you’re okay. It’s not denial.
Strong faith is confidence in Jesus Christ and in God’s Word—especially when feelings and circumstances don’t agree.
Key Scriptures
Hebrews 11:1 — “Faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.”
2 Corinthians 5:7 — “For we walk by faith, not by sight.”
Romans 10:17 — “So then faith cometh by hearing, and hearing by the word of God.”
Mark 11:22–24 — Jesus teaches believing prayer and expectation.
Faith grows when you:
Hear the Word
Believe the Word
Speak the Word
Act on the Word
Endure until the promise manifests (or until God gives direction)
Personal Experiences, Miracles, and HIs manifestations in our lives
Strong faith is rooted in who God is by the Word of God, not in what you see. We don't see him, but through the Holy Spirit we can know Him. It is faith to know it is him who is speaking to us at times.
It requires trusting that the inner prompting or message is truly from Him. While some may think hearing makes faith unnecessary, biblical teaching suggests that hearing His voice requires faith to discern, accept, and act on the message, often resulting in obedience.
- John 10:27 (ESV): "My sheep hear my voice, and I know them, and they follow me".
- John 10:3-4 (NIV): "...The sheep listen to his voice. He calls his own sheep by name and leads them out... his sheep follow him because they know his voice".
Discussion Question #1
Where do you notice your faith “wobbling” the most: finances, family, health, rejection, waiting, when things go wrong, when you thought you heard God's promises and it does not come about, fear, or spiritual warfare? Why do you think that area is the hardest?
Have you ever had a promise that didn't come about, and it hurt, and felt let down by God? How did you handle it? Did it set you back, or did you push through?
Through getting through, did it increase your faith or cause more doubt in your faith that you had to regrow in trust in God?
2) Why Faith Wobbles: Common Causes
Many believers love Jesus, but still wobble because of hidden weaknesses that the Lord must be strengthened in us. Like pealing away the wrong beliefs, wrong concepts, and possibly dying to self relience.
A) Faith wobbles when you interpret God through circumstances
If your emotions lead your theology, your faith will rise and fall. The gospel is not based on feelings, emotions, but God's Word - He is all truth.
Scriptures
Isaiah 55:8–9 — God’s ways are higher than ours.
Psalm 34:19 — “Many are the afflictions of the righteous: but the LORD delivereth him out of them all.”
B) Faith wobbles when you don’t renew your mind
A mind full of fear-thoughts will fight the Word. It is important to memorize the Word of God and tuck it in our hearts. There may be a time when we don't have the Word. The Prime Minsiter of Canada, is saying that the bible is hate speech. They may, in the near future, the bible may end up being outlawed. In Riverside, California, besides Minnesota, a church, Harvests Church was attacked where Erika Kirk, the wife of slain conservative commentator Charlie Kirk, is expected to speak. The rioters were mocking the people. Would that shake your faith if that happened to your church? Why or why not?
The Word is pwoerful and even breaks down the Defective" Neural Pattern strongholds of the mind, but literally breaks down neurotransmitters and regrow healthy neurotransmitters.
Scriptures
Romans 12:2 — Be transformed by renewing your mind. We grow our faith in Christ.
2 Corinthians 10:4–5 — Cast down imaginations and bring thoughts into obedience. Removing barriers that keep us from going deeper in our faith. One of the concepts that hurts our faith is bitterness. The more we replay the strongher the stronghold becomes.
Negative Strongholds are -
- Biblical Definition: In the New Testament (2 Corinthians 10:4-5), "strongholds" refer to entrenched, false belief systems, arguments, and lofty opinions that hinder a person from knowing God and experiencing true freedom.
- These spiritual strongholds often manifest as repetitive, destructive thought patterns (e.g., fear, anxiety, anger, self-loathing). Science calls this a "hard-wired" brain pathway, where repeated thoughts create strong neural networks that make certain emotional responses feel automatic.
- The "Defective" Aspect: When we consistently believe lies (contrary to God's Word), we build a "fortress" of thinking that causes the brain to function in ways that lead to anxiety, depression, and destructive behavior, rather than peace and joy.
- Neuroplasticity and Biblical Renewal: Science confirms that the brain is not fixed; it can change based on experiences, thoughts, and behaviors—a concept known as neuroplasticity. God’s command to be "transformed by the renewing of your mind" (Romans 12:2) describes this process.
- Rewiring the Brain: Just as negative thinking builds unhealthy neural pathways, meditating on, speaking, and obeying Scripture (God's Word) allows the brain to create new, healthy pathways.
- Burning" the Old: Jeremiah 23:29 describes God's word as a fire and a hammer that breaks rock. In the context of the mind, it burns away false beliefs and replaces them with truth, essentially "reprogramming" the brain.
- Scripture: "Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind" (Romans 12:2).
- Result: Replacing fear with faith, and bitterness with forgiveness, literally rewires the brain's chemistry toward peace and joy.
- The Feeler (Emotional/Empathetic): God speaks through deep emotions or physical sensations, often highlighting a burden, a sense of peace, or an impression about a person or situation.
- The Seer (Visual/Imagination): God communicates via internal pictures, visions, or by highlighting mental imagery, often during prayer or worship.
- The Thinker (Rational/Scriptural): God speaks through the "still, small voice" of quiet reasoning, or by illuminating specific passages of Scripture that provide divine wisdom and direction.
- The Doer (Pragmatic/Situational): God directs through open doors, closed doors, or "uncanny coincidences" that align with divine purpose, providing a practical, logical path forward.
- The Meditator (Stillness/Awe): God speaks in moments of quietness, reflection, or through the wonder of nature, allowing for a deeper sense of presence.
C) Faith wobbles when you try to carry life alone
Isolation makes battles heavier than they need to be.
Scriptures
Ecclesiastes 4:9–10 — Two are better than one.
Galatians 6:2 — Bear one another’s burdens.
Discussion Question #2
Which one hits you most: letting circumstances define God, unrenewed thinking, or trying to fight alone? What would change if you addressed that one issue first?
3) The Foundation of Unshakable Faith: Knowing God’s Character what HIs word says about Him and what he says about you?
Faith becomes steady when you settle this:
God is good, God is faithful, and God cannot lie.
Key Scriptures
Numbers 23:19 — God does not lie.
Hebrews 13:8 — Jesus Christ is the same yesterday, today, and forever.
Lamentations 3:22–23 — His mercies are new every morning.
Psalm 145:9 — The LORD is good to all.
When you truly know God’s character, you stop asking:
“Will God come through?”
and start declaring:“God is faithful—even if I don’t understand the process.”
Strong faith says:
“My life is not proof of God’s absence. The cross is proof of God’s love.”
Romans 8:32 — If He gave His Son, He won’t withhold what you need.
Discussion Question #3
What false belief about God have you battled (even quietly)—for example: “God is harsh,” “God forgot me,” “God helps others but not me,” or “God is disappointed in me”, God doesn't see me, I am cursed? What Scripture corrects that lie?
4) How Faith Gets Strong: The Training Process
Faith is strengthened the way muscles are strengthened—through resistance.
A) Trials can strengthen faith (when you respond correctly)
Scriptures
James 1:2–4 — Trials develop patience; you become mature and complete.
1 Peter 1:6–7 — The testing of faith is more precious than gold.
Trials do not mean God hates you. They can mean:
You’re in training
You’re being purified
You’re being positioned
You’re being strengthened
Going up higher
B) You must learn endurance
Scriptures
Hebrews 10:35–36 — Don’t throw away confidence; you need endurance to receive the promise.
Galatians 6:9 — Don’t grow weary; you will reap if you don’t faint.
Strong faith doesn’t quit because it feels slow.
Strong faith refuses to interpret delay as denial.
Discussion Question
Think of a season that tested you. Did it strengthen you or harden you? What would it look like to respond differently if a similar test happened again?
5) The “No Wobble” Lifestyle: Daily Habits That Keep Faith Strong
Habit 1: Feed your faith daily - It just not only Sunday going to church. We have a responsibility to fuel the flame.
Faith cannot stay strong on one church service a week.
Scriptures
Matthew 4:4 — We live by every word of God.
Joshua 1:8 — Meditate on the Word day and night.
Practical:
Read, listen, or speak Scripture daily—even 10 minutes consistently builds strength.
Habit 2: Guard your gates (what you allow in)
What you watch, listen to on TV or negative from someone else, and dwell on will either feed fear or feed faith. Can we be in faith and fear at the same time? If yes, how. Is fear a lack of faith?
Scriptures
Proverbs 4:23 — Guard your heart.
Philippians 4:8 — Think on what is true, pure, lovely, and of good report.
When things don't go right, it is easy to get negative because we are looking at the circumstances instead of looking ahead. We know God knows our future because Jesus as the "author and finisher of our faith" is Hebrews 12:2.
Discussion: Speaking negative, how is that a form of fear and lack of faith?
Habit 3: Speak faith, not defeat
Your mouth can either agree with hell or agree with heaven.
Meaning, biblically-rooted concept indicating that the words you speak have the power to either produce life, blessing, and God’s will (heaven) or bring destruction, curses, and negativity (hell).
Aligning with God’s Word - It is Agreeing with Heaven (Speaking Life)
Aligning with Hell - Agreeing with the Enemy: Agreeing with hell means speaking words of fear, doubt, unbelief, lies, slander, and destruction.
Scriptures
Proverbs 18:21 — Life and death are in the power of the tongue.
Mark 11:23 — Believe and speak to the mountain.
Habit 4: Pray with Scripture
When you pray God’s Word, your faith lines up with His will.
Scriptures
1 John 5:14–15 — Confidence when we ask according to His will.
John 15:7 — If you abide in Me and My words abide in you, ask.
Discussion Question
Which habit is weakest right now: Word intake, guarding your gates, speaking faith, or praying Scripture? What simple change can you start this week?
6) Standing Firm When You’re Under Attack
There are moments when faith wobbles because the enemy pushes hard through fear, condemnation, confusion, or exhaustion, or distractions like your job trying to get a project done under a timeline.
A) Put on the armor of God (daily)
Ephesians 6:10–18 — Stand, resist, and pray.
Pay attention especially to:
Shield of faith — extinguishes fiery darts
Helmet of salvation — protects your mind
Sword of the Spirit (Word of God) — your offensive weapon
B) Resist the enemy—don’t negotiate with him
James 4:7 — Resist the devil, and he will flee.
C) Don’t let condemnation steal your confidence
Condemnation makes you feel disqualified from believing.
Scriptures
Romans 8:1 — No condemnation to those in Christ.
Revelation 12:10–11 — Overcome by the blood of the Lamb and testimony.
Discussion Question #6
When your faith is attacked, what is your default reaction: withdraw, worry, complain, overthink, or seek God? What would “standing” look like in one real situation you’re facing?
Closing Declarations to Speak Together
Use these as a group:
I believe God is faithful even when I don’t understand. (2 Timothy 2:13)
I will not be moved by what I see. I walk by faith. (2 Corinthians 5:7)
God has not given me a spirit of fear, but power, love, and a sound mind. (2 Timothy 1:7)
No weapon formed against me shall prosper. (Isaiah 54:17)
I will stand firm and I will not go backwards. (Ephesians 6:13)
Optional Group Activity (10–15 minutes)
Each woman chooses one “faith-wobble area.”
Find one Scripture promise for that area.
Write a 1–2 sentence faith confession using that Scripture.
Pray for one another in pairs.

